Monday, June 27, 2005

 

Dating

Over dim-sum lunch...

H: So have you been dating?

J: How would you define dating?

H: Going out with girl/s?

J: Hmm...so am i dating the 2 of you now? Keke! (had lunch with my 2 lady frens)

H: @@! Coz not! I mean 1-1.

J: Hmmm...like dat ah, this past wk v busy leh, got different ple ask me out but I cant go out lor. So like dat can consider or not?

H: Can (in a way)

J: Like dat ah...what if its that I go out 1-1, but its fren leh?

H: Yes also.

J: Like dat ah, got ah, then I was 'dating' the night before. But then huh, so later if I have time and I meet different fren/s every nite for different dinners/meals...like dat I have many dates?!?

H: *roll eyes*

J: Hahaahaaa

And so we see there is a fine thin line for Dating...what would you consider Dating to be?

 

So Far...its good...

And so, this group of frens had a pot-luck kinda gathering (house-warming) at this couple's house. Talk about marriage just flowed...questions asked...

And so, how has marriage life taken u so far?

Hubby: So Far...its good...

Fren A: Huh!? U mean the SoFA is good!?! Oh my! You have been sleeping outside!!!

Wahahaaa~!

OF Coz...Fren A and the rest of us were just teasing the couple...hahaahaaa

Sunday, June 26, 2005

 

老鼠爱大米

Hmmm...wonder if my hamster likes rice? haha =P

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Friday, June 24, 2005

 

Lifestyle

1-5. Double meaning. That's on the average sleeping around 1am and waking around 5am. And that's also since Monday-Friday. And what happens that in between there's involvement of white wine, red wine and beer all on the same night!?!

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Sunday, June 19, 2005

 

Aging

By George Carlin:


AGING

Do you realize that the only time in our lives when we like to get old is when we're kids? If you're less than 10 years old, you're so excited
about aging that you think in fractions. "How old are you?" "I'm four and a half!"

You're never thirty-six and a half. You're four and a half, going on
five! That's the key. You get into your teens, now they can't hold you back. You jump to the next number, or even a few ahead. "How old are you?" "I'm gonna be 16!" You could be 13, but hey, you're gonna be 16!

And then the greatest day of your life . . . you become 21. Even the
words sound like a ceremony . . . YOU BECOME 21. . . YEAS!!!

But then you turn 30. Oooohh, what happened there? Makes you sound like bad milk. He TURNED, we had to throw him out. There's no fun now, you're just a sour-dumpling. What's wrong? What's changed?

You BECOME 21, you TURN 30, then you're PUSHING 40.

Whoa! Put on the brakes, it's all slipping away. Before you know it, you REACH 50 . . . and your dreams are gone.

But wait!!! You MAKE it to 60. You didn't think you would!

So you BECOME 21, TURN 30, PUSH 40, REACH 50 and MAKE it to 60.

You've built up so much speed that you HIT 70! After that it's a
day-by-day thing; you HIT Wednesday! You get into your 80s and every day is a complete cycle; you HIT lunch; you TURN 4:30; you REACH bedtime.

And it doesn't end there. Into the 90s, you start going backwards; "I was JUST 92." Then a strange thing happens. If you make it over 100, you become a little kid again. "I'm 100 and a half!"

May you all make it to a healthy 100 and a half!!


HOW TO STAY YOUNG

Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctor worry about them. That is why you pay him/her.

Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.

Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain idle. " An idle mind is the devil's workshop." And the devil's name is Alzheimer's.

Enjoy the simple things.

Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.

The tears happen. Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person who is with us our entire life, is ourselves.
Be ALIVE while you are alive.

Surround yourself with what you love, whether it's family, friends, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.

Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable,
improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.

Don't take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, to the next county, to a foreign country, but NOT to where the guilt is.

Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.


AND ALWAYS REMEMBER:

Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take, but by the moments that take our breath away.

Thursday, June 16, 2005

 

Rainbows

When I was away...in the foreign sky...there appeared 2 rainbows simultaneously. Beautiful. The top right is less obvious but it was an 'icing' to the bottom rainhow which was really clear and really really BIG and it stretched a longgg way. Nice!

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Wednesday, June 15, 2005

 

Disappearing Act*Back

Actually I wanted to update blog once I came back to Singapore, ah yes, I was away from 2nd-11th Jun. But somehow I did not, was busy with other things. Then after that I did not feel like putting it up. And in between I actually did a 2nd Disappearing Act from S'pore again, from 13th-14th, I was away again. So by right, the title should be Disappearing Act*Disappearing Act2*Back.

Anyway, I've written some things while I was away (1st Disappearing Act). And since I've written, in the end, I will put it up.


我回来了。

这一阵子,你知道我不在新加坡吗?

这一阵子,有人叫我 update blog.

这一阵子,我想了很多人。很多事。很多经历。


那些对我很好很好的友人,我似乎对你们不怎么样;而我似乎会避开你们的很好很好。

那些有感情付出的,对不起,我更是显得无动于衷。会如此,只怕负了你们的心意;但无意间却冷落或伤害了你。

这一趟,Anyi 在我出发前说,等着看我的留言宣告。的确,这似乎是很了解我的作风。打从有了电邮或是我第一次出国,唯一/必定/肯定/一定 不变的就是通知大家我要‘离开’一阵子。我总会有一些交代,thru emails or hand written letter(s).

这一次,也不例外,本来要,但是最后还是要说声,Anyi, 你错了。这一次,我什么都没写就‘走’了。要不是 tagboard mArCO 提到我出国,我真的会‘消失’到回来为止。

原因?真的很想知道如果我真的‘烟消云散’了,是否你会知道吗?

大家都不再关心了吗?

也不是,是有一些人知道我出国的。

不知道是因为你没说耶。

也对。

但,我没告诉你是否就表示我跟你不 close 了。

哈哈。大家都该想一想。

你我的距离到底是怎样了?

如果你我的一切或大部分都沉浸在过去,那么我很感谢也珍惜昔日过往的曾经。

还会有更多的曾经?或是不断的曾经曾经?你我都加油吧。


*后记* 那些已经放弃在电话里听到我声音的人,I will use more of the phone de. You ple will be hearing (literally) more from me, I *promise*

Sunday, June 05, 2005

 

Disappearing Act

Jus disappeared from Singapore for some days liao!

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