Thursday, January 11, 2007
Forgiven + Protect = Forget? Proven?
There's basically no link to the above title...just that I cant decide which word to use exactly for the title.
Imagine this: Someone did something nasty...broke the law...hurt ple...etc etc...public eyes scorn this person...condemnation is the way to go...
Imagine this: 'No matter what he/she did, he/she is my father/mother/brother/sister/wife/husband...etc etc...and I will stand by him/her!!'
Imagine this: You have all along held a grudge against something/someone whom have disappointed you...hurt you...let you down...betrayed you...etc etc...
Imagine this: You read in the papers that this name is someone you know and this name is published for the 'wrong reasons' which equates to broken the law...
So who gets to be forgiven? Who gets to be protected?
Do we forgive and forget? Provided its of blood ties and strong bonds? And because people are emotionally involved? Rationally involved? Acquainted? Related?
And when do we forget about the person? the incident?
Otherwise the blame proven towards the person? the incident?
When we forgive, are we protecting the person...
When we protect, are we forgetting the misdeeds done...
When the blame is proven, does it mean we are starting to forget the person (subsequently) and all the good deeds (previously) done...
Imagine this: Someone did something nasty...broke the law...hurt ple...etc etc...public eyes scorn this person...condemnation is the way to go...
Imagine this: 'No matter what he/she did, he/she is my father/mother/brother/sister/wife/husband...etc etc...and I will stand by him/her!!'
Imagine this: You have all along held a grudge against something/someone whom have disappointed you...hurt you...let you down...betrayed you...etc etc...
Imagine this: You read in the papers that this name is someone you know and this name is published for the 'wrong reasons' which equates to broken the law...
So who gets to be forgiven? Who gets to be protected?
Do we forgive and forget? Provided its of blood ties and strong bonds? And because people are emotionally involved? Rationally involved? Acquainted? Related?
And when do we forget about the person? the incident?
Otherwise the blame proven towards the person? the incident?
When we forgive, are we protecting the person...
When we protect, are we forgetting the misdeeds done...
When the blame is proven, does it mean we are starting to forget the person (subsequently) and all the good deeds (previously) done...
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when we forgive, it means we have let go and accepted wat has happened.
when we protect and condone the actions, it means we are in self denial of the worng done.
when we forget, it only means we are locking up the memories n throw into a remote corner of the brain.
blood ties n bonds do not lead to forgiveness n forget.. love does.
i believe we shld forgive BUT never forget. coz the incident will serve as a reminder n a learning experience. =)
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when we protect and condone the actions, it means we are in self denial of the worng done.
when we forget, it only means we are locking up the memories n throw into a remote corner of the brain.
blood ties n bonds do not lead to forgiveness n forget.. love does.
i believe we shld forgive BUT never forget. coz the incident will serve as a reminder n a learning experience. =)
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